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Wednesday, December 28, 2011
. this is one blogpost about how i think some people should understand. if you have a commitment, let's say a cca session, it should be informed beforehand. and if you have already promised something else on that day before this, then please get your priorities right. it's not that you can't forgo, it doesn't kill to explain properly why you need to cancel out right? don't you know that everything has to be explained properly in order to avoid unhappiness? there's a reason why you think everyone don't understand you, BECAUSE YOU DON'T EVEN EXPLAIN YOUR ACTIONS. let's just say your cca ends at what 5pm, but you are needed at latest 2pm, what to do? DECIDE LAH. which is more important? if you are not back at latest 2pm, what will happen? if you forgo your cca stuff, is it going to be really missed? of which is your presence more important? will it escalate to become disastrous if you come back earlier? if it will, explain! don't act as if it's other people's fault that you get unhappy about it when you don't make sure they understand. just a simple, 'i can't come back that early, i have important things to settle, but i will try my best' will do it. not, 'you said this time yesterday and now you want me to be earlier so what you want me to do? my freaking cca ends at 5pm blahblahblah' notice the difference in ATTITUDE? i don't want to say much, but sometimes your attitude really makes me go crazy, but i cannot argue with you because you know yourself that non of my views nor message will get across. actions and consequences, please take time to think about them. i've told you so many times about your problem, if you don't spend any effort to help yourself, nobody will. and don't blame anyone for your loneliness or unhappiness because you deserve them. i know, everybody has attitude at different times, i'm not saying mine is perfect, but at least to people i respect, i think before i do. don't compare yourself with others to make you feel better, compare yourselves. 
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